It’s fair to say that for most of my life I had absolutely no idea how to have healthy boundaries. Or any boundaries, really. I was mostly a limitless, beautiful blob of unencumbered accessibility, oversharing, and people pleasing just floating through life asking everyone if they’re mad at me.
Your ideas of setting boundaries are great for everyone. It’s hard to tell someone that you want more or less or none but being honest about what makes you feel happy and comfortable is always the best.